expectation is a form of assumption. assumption is death.

all activities involving others are a form of social life, just as an individual is fundamentally the same person regardless of the situation in which he may find himself. if the person's work life requires a set of personality attributes that are at variance with the values that he or she upholds in non-work life, there is inevitably going to be a conflict at some point. more likely, a crisis.

more later, maybe.